Episode 60

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13th Jan 2025

Feeling Behind? Reframe Your New Year Goals with Confidence

This week’s episode digs right into the messy middle of January, a time when the spark of New Year’s goals can feel overshadowed by life’s chaos and demands. This conversation with Thea & Meg tackles the reality of starting a new year amidst change, unpredictability, and the lingering feeling of being “behind.”

Explore the mindset shifts and strategies that high-achieving women can use to embrace change, lean into the discomfort of growth, and redefine their expectations for success. From finding clarity in the chaos to integrating family, work, and personal priorities, this episode offers actionable insights for balancing ambition with presence.

Tune in for candid reflections, powerful reframes, and practical advice to help set the tone for 2025 with intention and purpose.

What We Consider in this Episode:

  • Leaning Into the Seasonal Cadence: How January and February offer a natural invitation for reflection, planning, and resetting priorities.
  • Reframing the Feeling of Being “Behind”: Turning the discomfort of falling short of expectations into a catalyst for growth and clarity.
  • Integrating Life and Goals: Strategies for weaving work, family, and personal goals into a cohesive and balanced vision.
  • Releasing Unhealthy Expectations: Recognizing and letting go of self-imposed pressures that drain joy and hinder progress.
  • The Power of Rituals and Reflection: Creating meaningful habits and traditions, like Meg’s winter solstice ritual, to anchor growth and connection.
  • Finding Ease in the Hard Seasons: Embracing the full range of human experiences (both challenges and triumphs) and finding strength in the process.

Key Takeaways:

  1. January is not a race, it’s an invitation to slow down, reflect, and set intentional goals.
  2. Feeling “behind” can be a sign of ambition, reframe it as an opportunity for clarity and alignment.
  3. Integration, not compartmentalization, is key to balancing family, work, and personal priorities.
  4. Let go of unhealthy expectations and focus on what truly matters in your unique season of life.
  5. Rituals and intentional pauses, like seasonal reflection, create space for growth and connection.
  6. Goals are not just about outcomes, they’re about the process and progress along the way.
  7. High achievers thrive when they balance ambition with presence and ease.

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Listen if you’re looking for:

  • New Year goals
  • Goal setting for women
  • Embracing change and growth
  • Seasonal reflection
  • Work-life integration
  • Mindset for high achievers
  • Rural women’s lifestyle
  • Productivity and balance
  • Letting go of expectations
  • Family and business balance

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Cowgirls Over Coffee
Spoiler: there’s nothing you’re missing. There’s no hack, strategy, system or secret that you just haven’t figured out. There’s only the process of discovering what matters for you and what doesn’t, what works for you and what doesn’t. The Cowgirls Over Coffee podcast exists to invite women into deeper conversations that lead to stronger lives.

Welcome to Cowgirls Over Coffee with Thea Larsen! The podcast where I take you along on my mission to encourage and equip women to finally quit winging it, and learn to savor life at the intersection of home and ambition. Tune in each week for conversations with not only myself, but also roundtable discussions with my friends, and even an expert or two, as we navigate the messy, mundane and magic of every day cultivating thriving homes and businesses from the ranch, farm, kitchen table or cab of the truck.

This is an experiment in embracing the process, sampling systems, and nurturing self, all while simply refusing to settle for less than we know we can achieve - for ourselves, our families, our communities and our businesses. We’ll cover topics like planning, organization, rural lifestyle, motherhood, wellbeing, homemaking, dream chasing and entrepreneurship.

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